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2010-1-16:消失的兴趣爱好

 

记得以前有一个朋友这么说过我,“你做事情的目的性都太强了”,我当时听了感觉不是很好,这就像是在说我非常的功利,功利之心能从每一件小事情上透露出来,并且还无时无刻,一天24小时没有哪一件事情是没有目的的。朋友虽这么说了,我还是我行我素,用自己的思维指导行为,当然,依然“有目的”。

过去好几年了,我似乎还是这样,做每一件事情都有明确的目的,找不到目的的事情,就是没有意义的事情,就尽量不去做。于是,我的生活就少了很多上街闲逛,少了很多无意义的吃饭聚会KTV,还少了很多出游;这样我就有时间多安排了一些有针对性的学习,或者周末去公司加班,把工作做的更完美,或者多一些跟自己独处和休息的时间,为未来做准备。我没有觉得这样有什么不好,只是朋友的话一直在我脑中回旋,我一直在琢磨。

难道我们做事情不需要明确的目的吗?

我曾经用同一个问题咨询过很多朋友,我问他们:你们觉得有什么事情是你们非常愿意去做的,而且可以乐此不疲,废寝忘食,同时这件事情没有任何功利色彩,你所获得的仅仅是个人精神上的享受?

所有人的回答都是,没有。

我也没有。但是现在我想明白了,我不是没有,我的朋友们也不是没有,我们只是没有时间去做这些事情,这些其实就是我们真正的兴趣爱好,但是已经消失了的兴趣爱好。我们都是这个社会底层的打工的人,在现在繁忙的社会,大家为了生存或者生活的好一点,已经没有时间去顾及那些真正的兴趣爱好了。似乎无论我们如何努力,都逃不了一辈子劳作的命运。但是为了希望,还是要努力,于是我们所做的每一件事情都是带有目的的,都是为了让自己的更有前途,更有发展,有更多的人脉等等。

我们很难再回到小时候快乐玩耍的那种境界了,那是多么的无忧无虑啊!因为人小,不知道生活的艰难,玩耍时的心情就像没有一丝云的天空,那么的纯净和明亮。而我们这些所谓在社会上打拼的人啊,真的是有些悲哀!

 

Where are our hobbies?

Once upon a time, one of my friends told me that I always had a clear goal for whatever I did. At that time when I heard this comment, I would not feel very well. It just meant that I did everything for money or would gain some money in the coming days. Although I was committed to it, I still did what I thought was right. Of course, I had a clear goal for earning money.

Several years later, I find that I have not changed. I need to find a good reason to do anything. And if I can not find a good reason, I definitely will not do it. As a result, I seldom go downtown if I don’t have a shopping plan. I seldom go to the party or KTV with friends who are not important. And I seldom take a trip. On the contrary, I spend more time studying. I spend more time on my job and I would do my job at weekends if I want it to be perfect. And I spend more time thinking alone. I don’t think doing things with a clear destination is not good. But sometimes, I considered those words my friend said a few years ago.

Why shouldn’t we have a clear aim when we are doing things?

Once I asked all my friends a question. The question is that: Is there one thing that you like to do very much and when you are doing it you can even forget food and sleep, and you do it for nothing about money or fame, you just enjoy it?

After a short time of thinking, all my friends answered no.

Neither do I. But now I can explain the answer. Actually, we all have this one thing, and we just don’t have time to do it. The one thing is our hobbies, true hobbies which seems disappeared because they are ignored for a very long time. In this busy world, we spend all our time doing things related to money. Career plan, academic degree, and people who you know are all about money.

God, it is very hard for us to return to the state when we were playing around at our teenage. How carefree we were! Because we were little guys, we didn’t know the difficulties of life. When we were playing, our happiness is just like the clean and bright sky without a little cloud. And how sad we feel now!

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