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无欲无求的年轻人

2010年5月22日 / 323次阅读  Before-35
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无欲无求的年轻人

这段时间在上海,碰到了一个这样的同事,年龄27左右。言谈之间发现,心态非常好,完全不把我们对于工作,房子,生活的压力放在心上。房子没有钱就不买,工作就认认真真老老实实地做,也不谈女朋友,整天没事就在网上追各种小说,坚决拒绝学习英语,有些传统和保守,永远觉得自己的家乡最好。

中午吃饭,我问他以后结婚怎么办?他说有钱就在城里找一个,没钱就在乡下找一个。我又问他孩子怎么办?以后总得为下一代考虑一下吧。他说,没啥好考虑的,我就是从农村出来的,我的孩子也可以从农村走出来。我有些无语。。。他现在这种状态,对所有的问题都是逃避,面对现实,他会一再的退让,直到退无可退,他自己也承认了这一点。

不过后来我发现,说他逃避不太对,他的表面上是逃避,内心却是无欲无求。他没有在深圳买房子的想法,也没有在工作上要怎么怎么样的欲望,更没有找女朋友冲动,不喜欢英语就不学它,似乎很多东西他都没有。他总是沉浸在自己的世界中,这样一个人,活得真潇洒啊!

我们现代都市里面所谓打拼的人,越来越同质化了。我们想的一样,追求的一样,努力的方向一样,消费习惯一样,审美观点也一样,说的话做的事,性格特点也都有很多的一样,我们已经不再是完全的我们了,我们从小时候开始,就被现代社会刷洗地都差不多一样了。哪怕我们内心还有一点点一丝丝残存下来的自我,也是没有时间和不值得关注的。

我的这个同事在很多人眼里可能就是个不求上进,得过且过的人,他一定不属于我们这个社会所标榜的“好”的那一类。但是,我们大部分人是在被别人摧毁后的一片狼藉中努力地寻找自我,但是自我却越来越渺小,越来越微不足道;而他却是坚守在自我的领地上,有选择的,按照自己的兴趣东挑挑西看看,一路风景独好!

 

A young man with no desires

I know a young colleague these days in Shanghai. He is about 27 years old. After talking with him, I found that he has a very peaceful heart. He never put the disturbing matters of work, house and life on his shoulder which most of us worry about everyday. He doesn’t care at all. He will not struggle to buy a house if he is in lack of money. And his attitude about job is just honesty and seriousness. He has no girl friend and he said he doesn’t need one. He always read many kinds of novels online in his spare time. And he refuses seriously to study English. He is a little conservative and he told me that the best place in his mind is his hometown forever.

During lunch time, I asked him that how he would deal with his marriage? He told me that he would marry a city girl if he has enough money, and if he doesn’t, he would like to marry a country girl. And then I asked him about his children? I meant we should think about how to give our children a better life. But he told me that there is no need to think about it, and he was from poor countryside and so may be his children. After hearing about this, I didn’t know what to say for a moment! I think that his attitude towards these things is called escape. He will escape further and further while he faces harder and harder situations until there’s no way for escape any more. And he admits this point.

But then, I found that it is not very accurate to use escape for him. His escape is on surface, but actually he has no desire for something in his deep heart. He has no wish to buy house in ShenZhen. He has no wish to climb up the corporate ladder. And he has no wish to be in love. He doesn’t like English, so he just gets rid of it. It seems that he has no interests in so many things that he always sinks in his own mind world to lead a casual life.

The so called strugglers in big cites are grown up to be the same. What we think, what we dream about, what we like, what we buy and eat, what our hobbies, what our characteristics, and so on and forth, are all toward to all the same. We are not pure us any more. We are washed to be social products just since we were born. However much ego we keep in our deep soul, it is not important any more.

This colleague of mine maybe a guy who makes no efforts to seek progress, drifts along day by day in someone’s perspective. He must not be catalogued to a good class. But, look at us on the other hand, most of us try to catch ourselves on remains in our destroyed heart and ourselves are more and more small, more and more unimportant. But he always sticks on his heart land to choose completely according to his own soul on his life path. A beautiful scene only belongs to him!

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