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我们到底应该奋斗什么?

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2010年3月28日 / 174次阅读
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我们到底应该奋斗什么?

这个问题从宏观上面分析,就太形而上了。从微观个体来说说,可能还能够得到一点点大家的认同。

我们的奋斗,不外乎就是名利。但是大家都在奋斗名利,成功者寥寥。我觉得这是战略和战术的问题。战略是名利,但战术却不能。所谓功夫在诗外,通过耍小聪明直捣黄龙式的进攻方式,一般都不会有太好的结果,就算有了好的结果,维持的时间也是短暂的。

人要生活得好,亲人和朋友是必须的,亲人是岸,朋友是港湾,我们生活在岸上,同时还要时常到各个港湾去转转,这样生活才有意思。

把名利和亲人朋友这两个话题混在一起,我们对于名利的最求,其实落脚点应该是对人脉的经营。这个话有点俗,不过我想表达的并不是单纯的人际关系,我认为人脉的经营,更多的是对自己的经营。

近朱者赤近墨者黑。还有人说,你的个人财富数量基本上决定于你身边最好的几个朋友的财富的平均值。人脉经营不在于你认识多少人,有多少当官的,关键在于你与谁交往,谁与你志同道合,谁在帮助指导影响你,谁是的目标和榜样!那么,你的水平其实也就决定了你能够认识和接触的到人的水平。想要和更高层次的人接触,基本上只能先努力提高自己的水平,就像给自己搭一个梯子,爬上去了,你才能跟人家说得上话。

我们的奋斗,其实就是,好好地,经营自己。

 

What the hell do we struggle for in our life?

If we discuss this problem in a high level, it may have no meaning. But if we think about this issue from the view of a single person, I believe I can get some claps.

What we are struggling for are nothing more than money and power (MP for short). Everybody is doing this, but very few achieved. I think it is a problem between strategy and tactics. Our strategy may be MP, but our tactics must not be them. A Chinese old saying goes like this: If you want to write a great poem, your efforts should be outside the poem. It may not have good results if you fight for you final aim directly, and even though you have a good result, the lasting time of it is short.

Family and friends are all necessary for a better life. Family is a riverbank, and friends are harbors. We live on the bank, and we also like to travel to different harbors. Only this kind of life is meaningful.

Combining MP and family and friends together, the base for pursuing MP, I think, is the management of the inter-person relationships. It’s a little conventional. What I mean here is not only the relationship between you and the people you know, but also yourself.

Good companions have good influence while bad ones have bad influence. And others say that one person’s amount of wealth is mainly decided by the average wealth of this person’s several best friends. Management of the inter-person relationships is not only about how many people you know, how many of them are authorized officers of government. The key of it is about who are your friends, who have the same dreams with you, who can guide you, who can be your models. So, your level can determine the people you can get along with. If you want to get along with higher level people and make friends with them, the only way you can go is to improve you level first, just like building a ladder and climb up, then you can talk with them.

What we are struggling for, actually, is to well manage ourselves.

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  • 努力奋斗是一种生活状态,只是因为喜欢这种状态带来的心理满足,结果是自己的,本质上,与别人无关。 [ ]

  • 亲人是岸,朋友是港湾。这竟然是我08,09年时期说过的话。 [ ]


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