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5条人生最后悔的事情

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2012年2月19日 / 231次阅读
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老婆让我看看网络流传的一篇文章,是英国一个专门照顾临终病人的护士,总结出来的5条人生最后悔的事情。我只在这里列出这5条内容的中文版(没有找到英文原文),其它的都是我自己的“读后感”。

My wife gave me a link which is a hot article throughout the internet. The article was wrote by an English nurse. She concluded out the top 5 regrets of life from many of her dying patients. I list the 5 sentences below in blue (I do not get the original English version). And the other words are all comments by myself.

1.我希望当初我有勇气过自己真正想要的生活,而不是别人希望我过的生活。

人生每个阶段,想要的生活可能都是不一样的,你到底想要什么?这是一个很多人一生都无法圆满回答出来的问题。别人对我们的希望,不应该成为我们前进的动力,那样只会是去满足别人,再从别的赞许中满足自己。这样说到底是为了自己的那一点点虚荣心,虚荣心越强的人,越是不独立。自强和好强不一样,好强永远要挣一时之气,自强才是默默地坚定地追随自己的心。勇敢地做自己,不去做谁谁谁第二;勇敢地过自己想要的生活,哪怕自己想要的东西时常在变化;勇敢地去塑造,保护和追随自己的心,谁都破坏不了这颗心。

1, I hope that I could bravely steer the way of my life I really want, which was not controlled by others' expectation.

The expectations of our lives are different depending on different life phases. What do you want? This is a question which can not be fully answered by many people during their whole life periods.  We should not take other people's expectations as our ways of life. That is to only make other people satisfied, and then we get satisfaction through other people's praises. It's all about our little vanity. The more the vanity we have, the less independence we get. Self-improvement is not the same with doing everything well. To do everything well is just like that you are trying to fight with people every moments. Self-improvement is the way of chasing your heart still.  We should be ourselves, should not try to become anyone else. We should try to live in our own way, even though the ways are different from time to time. We should create, protect and follow our inner heartbeat, and prevent it from any breaking.

2.我希望当初我没有花这么多精力在工作上

这可能是源于每个人对自己的期望值都过高,自己认为付出和得到不成正比。如果当初不努力地工作,如何养家糊口;如果不努力去做,如何知道自己尽力的结果。不去努力的结果,人们在后悔是说出来的话可能就是:我希望当初我能够再努力一点,也许就能如何如何。关键问题是,花时间花精力努力工作,同时要保持身体健康和从容的生活。如何平衡,这才是个问题。

2, I hope that I didn't spend as much time as I did on working.

Dying people say this may be because of the higher expectation of results. They think that their efforts are not align with what they get. But, if do not hard working, how could we make our family's living. If do not try our best, how could we know the best result we can get. The regret I can image if people do not hard working is that I hope I can do it better and then the result is ... The key of this point is that  keep good health and easy life while hard working. How to achieve it, this is the big question.

3.我希望当初我能有勇气表达我的感受。

我不太理解。我觉得这根第一条是一样的。

3, I hope I could express my feeling bravely.

I do not understand. I think this is the same point with the first regret.

4.我希望当初我能和朋友保持联系。

我的很多朋友,其实都已经失去了联系。我正在想我是不是有些后悔。。。

4, I hope that I could keep in touch with my friends.

I had a lot of friends. I lost contact with most of them. I am trying to figure out whether I regret it or not.

5.我希望当初我能让自己活过开心点。

也不理解。看来很多人是没有让自己开心的能力,最后抱怨自己的生活不开心,我认为这跟第一条也是一样的。

5, I hope that I could live a more happy life.

I can not understand too. It looks like that many people do not have the ability to live a happy life. They complain their unhappy life at last. I think it's the same with the first regret.

总结,我临终时,应该不会为这5条去后悔。我的后悔可能是:以我一己之力,穷其一生,最终也没有能到达成我想要的目标和心里平衡。如果这个时候天天已经明白我的奋斗,他也具备了接替我继续走下去的能力,我将无悔。当然,目标也是会变化的,运在运中。

Conclusion. When I am going to die, I do not think I will have the top 5 regrets above. I will maybe regret that I, finally, can not achieve my goal and heart balance. If my boy understand his father's goal and he also have the ability to keep going on this way, I will be without regrets. Of course, my goal may be changed. The lucks in the future are based on what you are doing right now.

BR.
xinlin.

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